As human beings, we each struggle continually to overcome our very selves, for in reality, the inner battle against the ego is the true and greater jihad, and thus the means for real spiritual growth and development. Yet simply wanting change is not enough, nor is pure willpower. In order to create change, we must be strategic, intelligent and intentional, for war is strategy.
In this video, I share a simple two-step strategy based in the prophetic model and example to creating changes in habits without or with minimal force, which seldom works nor is it sustainable (unless you’re David Goggins).
To create a change in habits, rather than try to force yourself to stop doing something which is non-productive, harmful, negative or self-destructive, simply begin by introducing a positive, healing, strengthening and empowering habit into your life. The good, beneficial, healing, positive and luminous will naturally begin to repel the evil.
Second, make a concurrent positive and intentional change in your environment, for we are products of our environments. You do this by intentionally connecting with those who are either getting the results you are seeking and who are striving themselves towards them. This connection must be consistent and can either be physically in person, or remotely and energetically through content.
To your divine and eternal success.
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Another beautifully helpful and resonating vlog post. I can’t tell you how appreciative I am of these posts for helping me to stay on the right path of mind. Thank you so much for putting in the time and effort to care for the well-being of your fellow brothers and sisters. May Allah bless you and your loved ones always~
Thank you as well for your positive intent and supplications, Henna. May Allah Almighty continue to guide, support and strengthen you. Blessed regards.